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I can’t help but wonder if maybe I should focus on my career. I work hard. Being single can be good in my line of work...long periods of overseas travel...you can put your hand for more assignments, more travel means more sales and a possible promotion. Maybe work can make me happy? Or is it a combination of the two. I do not know where to next? I have so many options but none seems to be calling me. I wish I had a sign....where is that reason? I'm just in a bit of a funk this week....

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Everyone keeps telling me that everything happens for a reason.....I’m just hoping that reason comes to me soon. I am finally settled north of the bridge. Everything seems new: new shops, new flatmate, new commute, new dry cleaner. I miss the old. I miss him. But that is the constant thing about life...change. Things come and go into your life all the time. There will be new experiences. I used to believe that people either have a good personal life or a great career. I’ve always focused on my personal relationships on looking for love and a partner. But after 10 years of being out, I have nothing to show for it. Two failed relationships....have I learned anything? I’m not sure. I’m still back where I started.

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“Is breaking up with someone because he smokes a bad thing?” asked Tom at lunch. Deal breakers....we all have them....in evaluating a relationship you may make two lists...plus (likes) and dislikes (minuses). Which list is longer? When do you know when you should get out of a relationship? What’s worth dumping someone over? So you finally find the right guy but as you get to know him you find out things about him that you do not like...we all know men never change...you will not change so can you live with his tiny flaws or are these worth dumping him and finding for a more suitable mate? Smoking? Snoring? Body hair? Body odor? His taste in music? His hygiene? Too much drama? No, this is not a list of reasons why I’ve been dumped...although I have been called a drama queen on a few occasions.

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For Tom, smoking is not just about lighting up but it’s more about health. Smokers now in Sydney are outlaws that are not allowed to light up at bars, restaurants and shopping centres. They must take it outside and sometime Tom feels the fags are more important to his boyfriend than him. If they go to dinner together, the boyfriend spends more time outside inhaling than talking to Tom. Clearly the cigarettes were causing more than just his clothes to stink up. Tom was ready to give his boyfriend..quit or he would quit him. Our lunch time discussion left wondering about my own previous relationships. I probably would have put up with smoking if I really loved the guy....clearly if that was all that was wrong in the relationship...sometimes you do have to compromise. I’ve put up with a lot of body hair, low sex drive, emotionally unavailability...all because of love. But is this really worth it? Should we be ready to accept our potential partners with all their habits or addictions and compromise for love? Or should we try to change them (with patches and all). Or is a sign of addiction like smoking a sign that you are not compatible for the long run? Hmm...one more lunch time story that put me off to dating...and smoking.

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They say that opposites attract…but I could not help wonder if it is that simple. What makes us get excited about someone else? It is all hormones? It is their body? Their smiles? Their eyes? Are we attracted at people that have what we lack? Is attraction just about evolution? Or are we attracted to people who share our personalities? I have a crush. And my attraction is mostly about having something I cannot have…for one he’s straight and two he has a fiancé….and three he lives in Melbourne. But I get excited when I see him. He has a great smile. He writes funny emails and basically when I see him I want to rip his clothes off. He’s got a great body but physically…he totally would not be my type. I’ve only spoken to him in a business setting…but how come I am so attracted to him??